Thursday, June 4, 2009

You...

Simplicity:

...ever stop to wonder why human beings are capable of feeling so many different things at once?
question what it is that separates the mentality of a man and that of a woman?
Have you ever hoped for something you knew deep down just simply could never be?
This specifically to the men out there:
(be honest) have you ever felt the pain of a broken heart equivalent to the weight of the Himalayas crashing down on you?
I guess tonight as I listen to the rain and watch the game... which isn't very entertaining due to the lack of an interesting match-up (Kobe vs. Dwight... not really doing it for me) I'm questioning reason.
Trying to understand exactly why things are as they are.
Granted everything happens for a reason and we may very well never know what that reason is.
How come the reasoning within our heads never results in cohesion between two people in love?
How come there always seems to be a big boulder preventing the perfect match from simply being?
Maybe it's me personally seeing as that many people are happy with their significant others and I'm simply single and hating it...
But, I truly believe that there is something missing and that not everyone is with their soul mate because otherwise there'd be a lot less depressed and divorced people!
Do people choose to settle because it makes sense or because they can't fathom something great truly being placed in front of them and them being allowed to have it without tears and turmoil?
I don't know.. Maybe I've had too many shots at this thing called love and I know the difference between liking someone a lot, loving someone and being in love.
Yet I'm still left with only the pain of remembering and not actually having.
Does it come back off it's own accord or is that all we get... a glimpse of heaven in someones eyes that just goes away just as quickly as the blink of his eyes?
Sean, why isn't it simpler?


Sean:

Because this is life n love and all too often things that feel too good to be true often are. Take for example the dream match of kobe and lebron. How often do we really get to see perfectly matched counterparts collide either in battle or in cohesion? There's always a boulder- a dwight howard- which comes along and gets in the way of the oft sought inevitable wonderfulness aka the dream match. In Life & Love pain is all inevitable and dreams seldom come true. The odds if not the Gods, are against us. With billions of people spread across millions of miles how can 1 man expect to find their exact perfect match? I defy you to place 50 exclusively different pairs of socks in a bag, one individual sock at a time. One by one take them back out. How often do you think you'd find the perfect match? So instead of keep trying we pick 2 socks which are close enough in color n style. And as weird as someone with mismatched socks looks, it doesn't look so weird when the vast majority also sport mismatched socks.

Simplicity:
p.s. I hate your response!

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